So your attitude is “yes, it is all part of it, but I chose not to. It’s ok, it is all part of the perfection, it’s been what I was set-up on, what I was running but I want to choose something else now and I don’t have to be a servant to that pattern, but I am not hating that pattern or I’m not disowning that pattern. In order to seek out extra related answers, you’ll be able to try here, so you may perceive better about get him back forever. I love all energies.” Okay. So Step 4 is it now? Melody: Make a decision that you don’t want the pattern in your life anymore, your decision is final. You won’t accept it anymore. You won’t allow it, if you see it starting up to stop it. Dr. Robby: Decision is the father of all action and in this case it is the decision to take a stand. That means that’s it. Not going to happen no more. Done. Take a stand. Does decision mean to cut off any other possibilities? No, you need to say “I accept this possibility in reality, it’s a part of duality and reality that I am in, the many possibilities of reality that I am in but I just don’t want it anymore. Click right here to know what’s new about Ex recovery system. I’ve been there, done that.” You don’t do that in anger, you do that in love. Melody: Because you have already gone over Step 4 where you have accepted that it is one of many patterns so you are not in resistance anymore. Dr. Robby: Because what you resist, persists and bites you in the butt. The next step, what is it now? Melody: Number 5, choose a polaristic pattern or opposite pattern or another pattern that suits your life better. Dr. Robby: Right, because you have infinite number of patterns to choose, choose the one that suits you, that has the qualities that you like and improve the quality of your life and if you look at the opposite… What would be the opposite of your pattern? To be with a bunch of Spenders? Melody: Yes, that’s one possibility. If you are trying to find information about how to get your ex back, click here to seek out out more. Dr. Robby: So what would be the ideal condition for you in your world in that pattern? I guess you would like power and control over your own money? Melody: Yes Dr. Robby: You want to be able to Spend you own money, have power and control over your own money and you have enough of that money to make it worth while. Melody: Right. Dr. Robby: So does that sound like an ideal pattern?Melody: Oh, Yes! Dr. Robby: Always choose the most ideal pattern. I mean we create our subjective reality, might as well, why not make it the best you can. It is also good that you experienced the opposite. Because sometimes we don’t know what we want till we get what we don’t want. You know, as I say, sometimes you need to live in a house without closets to appreciate that we need closets.